Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are

• Curiosity and
• Self interest

Here’s the BIG SECRET!

Combine the two, and you will have a recipe that WILL literally work ‘magic’

So…

Do you want to have a look at what you can say that works almost EVERY TIME?

Say this in a friendly tone:

“Hi John. It’s Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”

See how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! At the very least, he’ll be thinking:

“What did I do?”
“What does she appreciate?”

The bonus is that he feels good because it is a positive message. Not threatened or annoyed.

Now…

Before you make your call, or send your text or IM, you need to do the “Set Up”… What is “the setup?” that’s when you figure out what it is that they did for you that you appreciate.

It can be something small…but it needs to be plausible, or preferably have actually happened.

But more importantly…
2nd WARNING!

Please make sure that you have an underlying strategy like is laid out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.

Click this link to find out how to develop your underlying strategy for making up with your ex.

If you apply this technique, without a strategy or plan of action, and they call you back, you could do much more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle their call back correctly. Like the saying goes, if you fail to plan, then you plan to fail.

Okay?

What I am saying is…

What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

Make sense?

So now you have an idea about what to do, but what are the steps to help get you there? Rafael has teamed up with TW Jackson to offer you T Dub’s book called The Magic of Making Up. You can download the book at http://www.relationshipequation.com/