Hi,

Maybe you’ve been figuratively beating your head up against a wall trying to get your ex to return your phone calls. Maybe you’ve left some messages practically begging for a call back, or maybe not. Maybe you’re just wondering what can you do to get your ex to call you back, hoping that there is a magic set of words or just something that you can say that will make them call you back.

Believe it or not, there are ‘magic’ words that you can use to get your ex to return your calls. The words involve no begging, no threats, no deceit, in fact, the words involve nothing negative at all.

I know it sounds hard to believe.

These words will, for all intents and purposes, cast a spell that will make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?…

I came across this tidbit while I was trying to help a friend of mine mend his relationship. I am going to share this with you because this little technique got my friend and his girlfriend back on the road to put their relationship back together.

The question could just as easily be: “How do I get my ex to return my phone call, my text or my instant message?”

BUT…

FRIENDLY WARNING!

I got this strategy from a book called the “Magic Of Making Up.” In that book, there is a complete strategy for making up with your ex, if that is something that you want to do.

Here’s a link to get the Magic of Making Up

Here’s a friendly warning: If you use this technique on its own, without an ‘overall’ plan or strategy about what to do next… you may end up doing more damage to your relationship than if they had never returned your call, or text, or IM.

Here’s What NOT to Say!

Before I tell you what does work, let me tell you what doesn’t work. What’s even worse that this not working, is that it puts you in a very bad psychological position.

I mentioned these briefly in the beginning, but they are worth singling out again. The bad things to say fall into 2 categories:
First, there’s:

The PLEAD- Also known as the begging for you to call me back. This message, usually sounds like this:

“Shelly, please, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you.”

Secondly, there’s the EMERGENCY- Also known as the I’m out of ideas so I’m going to see if I can scare you into calling me back. This call sounds like this:

“Fred, this is an emergency. You need to call me as soon as you get this.”
I don’t think I need to get into what wrong with these approaches, so I’ll just leave them be.

So, I won’t go on and on about what doesn’t work… What does work, is using their curiosity and self interest to get them to call you back.

So now you have an idea about what to do, but what are the steps to help get you there? Rafael has teamed up with TW Jackson to offer you T Dub’s book called <a href=”http://www.relationshipequation.com”>The Magic of Making Up</a>. You can download the book at http://www.relationshipequation.com/

How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage